– Friend # 1
“There’s a half naked guy in a welder’s apron. Weird. He’s got a nice ass. They’re playing my favorite Depeche Mode song, let’s dance.” For the next several hours, that’s what we do. Admiring the bravery of some to just wear electrical tape and underwear out in public.
“Whoa, this dude is getting his lips sewn shut. I am so freaked out but I can’t stop watching. Why is he doing this? I’m going to go find out.” They may never get the answer why, but they’re willing to try and learn more on why a person likes what they are doing/going through. (This instant, the guy was into whatever “torture” his Mistress would do to him.)
“This is amazing. Who knew there was so much going on. I wonder what it’s like to do this, that, or another.” Their curiosity is piqued. They want to perhaps try something things besides missionary sex.
“Sorry, I bailed.” They did not understand and cannot wrap their head around anything that was going on. They are so freaked out by the sexual freedom in the room that they leave scared.
“This is weird, but okay. Whatever.” They are okay with what was happening around them. They didn’t have to understand it. They didn’t judge it. They just had fun with it all.
“Do I get to dress up? I’m in.” They are happy to go and let their freak flag fly without fear of judgement.
“He said he’s in an open relationship with his wife. She’s upstairs spanking someone and I just made out with him on that bench.” They are exploring what floats their boat, what boundaries they have or don’t have. They are looking for freedom in their sexuality.
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